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Get on to get on
All things being equal, most people prefer to hang out and make friends with people who are pleasant and easy to get on with. This is...
Aug 23, 20241 min read


The Status Game
I need to tell you about this game we play as people. Everyone plays it, everyone has always played it, and probably always will. You...
Jul 24, 20245 min read


Do something hard
We live in one of the greatest times in history. Never have so many people had life so good. Life today has luxuries unimagined even 20...
Jul 2, 20242 min read


Dealing with assholes and bullies
Growing up, there are going to be difficult people who you will need to deal with even though you don't like or trust them. They may be a...
Jun 20, 20245 min read


Who to trust
Here are the rules we taught you as a little kid to stay safe - and they still hold true: You trust immediate family (me, your mum, all...
Jun 20, 20241 min read


If it all goes wrong
I hope you never need this post, or any of the other related posts in this section. But if you need this advice and I'm not around, I'd...
Jun 16, 20243 min read
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